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1. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive18 Jan 2007, 00:00
   What is absolutely the worst thing that has ever happened to you? I got attacked by a total stranger (would be rapist) on the way home from the student union late one night when I was 18. Managed to get away. (BOOYAH )
2. Violette13Salvaged from archive18 Jan 2007, 00:00
   For me i think that would be when Christmas before last my son's dad attacked me and i thought he was going to kill me. @_@ That ranks pretty up there in my book.
3. Big OzzieSalvaged from archive19 Jan 2007, 00:00
   I really do not know what would be the worse thing...I have experienced a lot in my years, many people may think that they were bad. I think they are experiences. Perhaps it would be coming home from a 4 day ski weekend to find that my best friend blew his Brains out with MY gun on MY couch in My living room. That happened 18 years ago and still effects me. OR, it could be going to the Hospital and signing the papers to pull the plug on my other best friend who had been shot and was brain dead. Perhaps it was in '79 when I was up on a scaffold and it collapsed and I fell 3 stories in slow motion, landing on my right hand extended which snapped my rotator cuff and drove my upper arm in my chest cavity. Three operations later and I have an artificial joint in my shoulder and throw a ball like a little girl, but can use the arm otherwise.
4. [[ kUPId™ ]]Salvaged from archive19 Jan 2007, 00:00
   :shock: ... *huglz Oz* When i was two years old, i was playing in the kerb with my teaset... and i got run over by a car! Its tyre drove diagonally over me from my left hip to my right shoulder.. despite dying several times on the way to the hospital, i managed to suffer only internal bruising.. and a bump on my forehead, where my head apparently hit the bumper (i still have a dent there) ... i had to learn how to walk again.. and wouldnt let anyone come near me for a month after.... The driver, never got done for it... although he happened to blurt it out a few weeks later in the same pub as my uncle... needless to say, he got the fuck beaten out of him :roll:
5. BrixtonSalvaged from archive19 Jan 2007, 00:00
   Quote: Originally Posted by DandruffBGone What is absolutely the worst thing that has ever happened to you? Seeing one of my good mates get stabbed to death in a street fight, having to cradle him before he died watching his life drift away. I hope I never have to see/do anything like that again in my whole life, ever man. RIP COLIN, we miss you bro.
6. andrexoteSalvaged from archive19 Jan 2007, 00:00
   Quote: Originally Posted by Brixton Quote: Originally Posted by DandruffBGone What is absolutely the worst thing that has ever happened to you? Seeing one of my good mates get stabbed to death in a street fight, having to cradle him before he died watching his life drift away. I hope I never have to see/do anything like that again in my whole life, ever man. RIP COLIN, we miss you bro. Shit, man. That's hard stuff...
7. BrixtonSalvaged from archive19 Jan 2007, 00:00
   Quote: Originally Posted by andrexote Shit, man. That's hard stuff... It took me a few years to come to terms with it and I guess Im still not over it, don't really like talking bout it much, its something really very bad and dark that I wouldnt wish on anyone.
8. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive19 Jan 2007, 00:00
   ^^^ Wow guys. That's some heavy stuff. I got osteomyelitis when I was a toddler, and still have it (right leg). I don't limp or anything, but have been in pain all my life. Given the choice, I would chose that rather than some of what you guys have been through.
9. Big OzzieSalvaged from archive19 Jan 2007, 00:00
   Quote: Originally Posted by Brixton Quote: Originally Posted by andrexote Shit, man. That's hard stuff... It took me a few years to come to terms with it and I guess Im still not over it, don't really like talking bout it much, its something really very bad and dark that I wouldnt wish on anyone. Never been there with a friend, Brix...just had to sign to pull the plug (life support) on my best friend. The Hospital would not allow me to be with him when he passed. Turns out, because he was an Organ Donor, they kept the machines running while they harvested the organs so they would remain viable. Once you remove the organs (or death occurs) you only have from minutes to several hours to get the organ transplanted and hooked up. Oh well, I got to meet some of the people who benefited and are alive now because he was a donor....I suppose that is a good thing. Back to your situation, I think the sudden passing of a close friend is often more traumatic than the loss of a parent...at least as you get older. I never had a real close friend die in my arms, but I did have the honor to be with and comfort two Heart attack victims (well one was unconscious) and I was with several who passed do to auto accidents. I say that it was an honor to be with them and comfort them in their final moments because I had an "epiphany" during one of the deaths that totally changed my outlook on life and death. I believe that Ms Piggy stated in another thread that she was with her father when he passed, I would have loved to have been with my Mom when she went, just to comfort her and ease her fears. Much rather that then have her lay on the floor for 3 days before any one found her.
10. [[ kUPId™ ]]Salvaged from archive19 Jan 2007, 00:00
    this thread is really depressing ... not that im niave to the realitys, just sucks knowing its more out there than you think.. Be safe <33
11. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive19 Jan 2007, 00:00
    Ozzie, would you care to tell us about the epiphany? Only if you want to of course.........
12. Big OzzieSalvaged from archive19 Jan 2007, 00:00
    Quote: Originally Posted by DandruffBGone Ozzie, would you care to tell us about the epiphany? Only if you want to of course......... All I can say is that when it happened, a great feeling of Peace came over me and the man I was holding. It was as if a great burden had been lifted from our shoulders and we were like one person. He became relaxed and calm, looked me in the eyes like he recognized me, told me that he would be alright and to tell his mom and girlfriend that he loved them....and passed. I felt as if there was someone there that wrapped their arms around us in a big hug, then I felt light, like I was floating or being lifted and then the Paramedics were shaking me and yelling at me to move. There was definitely something there that was greater than all of us here.

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