how do you act around women?

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petergriffin Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] are you yourself, do you try to be someone your not? like a cowboy astronaut race car driver? do you make the first move or let them come to you? also if you are a woman just substitute this for a male. edit:_ i think its wrong to hit a woman of course. but if she starts beating on you with a belt or something, you should be able to defend yourself. am i right?
Big Ozzie Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] I am always myself, with whomever I meet. No since in putting on false airs and persona's that you will have to explain later. The "first move" can be done by either. As you mature, you know when the time is right to "make a move" I have struck women in my past, but only a couple...not out of habit. Right or wrong, it was in self defense and I would do it again if I was in the same situation.
Heero Valentine Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] i'll act like i always do, no explaining after u have had a longer relationship with her. i mostly let them make the move, i like to play with them (no oz not that way) and hell if she starts beating me, i'll beat her back. i ain't taking shit from no1
Tho-MliASTER Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] I am myself, but usually am a tad more polite
PA Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] i am myself around the females, but like Tho-MliASTER said, i am just a bit more polite and civilized.
The Joker Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] ^^^ what they said....i just depends on how polite you are..i believe that should be the first factor to all women men try to go up to
Tho-MliASTER Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] I'd also say it depends on how they treat me. If they treat me bad they can't expect me to be Mr.Happy
Heero Valentine Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] well you guys are right, mostly we act a bit more polite to get the girl
Big Ozzie Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] Quote: Originally Posted by Heero Valentine View Post well you guys are right, mostly we act a bit more polite to get the girl Not me...I try to be polite to everyone I meet. I consider all strangers a friend that I just have not met yet. SO, whether it be a man or woman, old person or child, I approach the person with courtesy and politeness. Until such a point that I see that they are not deserving of such treatment. At that point, I treat others equally...regardless of gender.
Heero Valentine Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] you may be Oz, but i'm not like you. i can be quite an ass against people
Big Ozzie Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] Quote: Originally Posted by Heero Valentine View Post you may be Oz, but i'm not like you. i can be quite an ass against people When I was young, I was an obstinate Bastard! Fixed in my ways and values! My motto was "It's my way...or the Highway!" Got in more fights and battles than there was time for. Treated girls and women like I didn't give two shits (cause I didn't) Lived life like I only had a few years left (which I thought I did) So...I never developed true friendships growing up. Not until I was on the Police Force and found out what it was really like to come under fire and take a human life did my outlook on life change. It does you no good, serves no positive purpose to be mean or act like an ass to anyone. Especially when you do not know them or the do not deserve such treatment!
Spleen Salvaged from Archive	Posted: 24 Feb 2007, 00:00 · [Salvaged from Archive] I wouldnt say im more polite, but i'd say im more 'charming'. I do have a fair bit of charisma, and im more likely to let that shine through with females. On of my best mates Grace once said 'if been angry with you so many times Jack and you have acted like a cunt so many times, but i can always forgive you because your so lovely' Funny enough I spent about half an hour last night making sure she was ok an holding her hair out her face when she was vomiting outside a club, whilst her cuntish boy friend was ignoring her. I'd say im more likely to be my true self around girls cos I feel more comortably showing the more sensitive side of me, which I cover up with jokes and attention seeking when im with 'the lads' or a group of people. I get on very well with girls tbh as a friend. My lovelife with girls is abit limited, no meaninful relationships, mostly drunken flings. I've got a great mate called Catie, and with her I act like 'the gay friend' etc. I wouldnt say I put this on, its just another side to me which I wouldn't show with my male mates unless making a joke etc. This time last year I hardly hung around with any females though, my relationship with girls has developed alot more since I turned 17. As for hitting girls I had a fight with a girl when I was 12 and pulled her hair, and another time I threw dog shit in her sisters hair. I would never strike out against a girl, but would defend myself if I was attacked, which is only fair. Rachel made me so so so angry afew weeks back and I took my anger out on my laptop instead and put my fist through it.