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So i'm performing my first wedding on the 16th. o_O

1. Violette13Salvaged from archive5 Dec 2006, 21:19
   I'm a bit nervous. It's for friends, but still, i want to make sure it's done in a way that makes them happy. I have been working on memorizing my lines tonight lol.. There's going to be myself, the couple and three others there. We're just going to drive to the coast, find a cool overlook or something, (no idea where yet), do it, sign it, and then go get drunk. XD
2. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Dec 2006, 21:32
   I'm a bit nervous. It's for friends, but still, i want to make sure it's done in a way that makes them happy. I have been working on memorizing my lines tonight lol.. There's going to be myself, the couple and three others there. We're just going to drive to the coast, find a cool overlook or something, (no idea where yet), do it, sign it, and then go get drunk. XD I don't understand. You are performing the ceremony?
3. tgd_02Salvaged from archive5 Dec 2006, 21:33
   gl
4. Violette13Salvaged from archive5 Dec 2006, 22:16
   Yes i am. :) I'm legally ordained as of the 20th of November. ;D
5. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Dec 2006, 22:22
   Yes i am. :) I'm legally ordained as of the 20th of November. ;D That is so cool. I'm trying to make dinner, but it'll have to wait until I find out about this. What are you? A priest or something? Wiccan? ?????? :)
6. Violette13Salvaged from archive5 Dec 2006, 22:29
   Reverand is the title on my certificate, but :) Not tied to any religion, just doing my own thing and now i have the legal ability to marry people, do funerals etc..
7. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Dec 2006, 22:34
   Reverand is the title on my certificate, but :) Not tied to any religion, just doing my own thing and now i have the legal ability to marry people, do funerals etc.. Right on! I'm not one for marriage, but I know some people find great comfort in it. Good luck (at least they're pals so you can flub a little the first time :P ). I like this saying "Live your life so the reverend doesn't have to lie at your funeral". :D
8. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 10:20
   Yes i am. :) I'm legally ordained as of the 20th of November. ;D wow! I'm a muslim but always wanted to be a muslim priest.... alas I'm not mentally fit to be one. I would shake your hand if you were here. You're the second person I know on cabi that is legally ordained as a rev. Grimmancer was the first I knew off. Maybe I will get you to do a wedding of my friend....Adrian Fernandez. ;) You're a muslim Ace? Not many muslims where I live now, but I met lots while living in the Middle East. Beautiful gentle kind honorable people. It grieves me to see the ignorant flack they take now, but then everybody is taking flack for their beliefs I guess!
9. BrixtonSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 10:41
   Ive not seen many vicars or reverends that dress like that and are into piercings and tatoos...god would not approve. Im sorry, but once agin I smell bullshit. Have a nice day say hi to jesus for me
10. FrostSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 10:42
    Hey, nothing wrong with some free food and an open bar right?
11. BrixtonSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 10:43
    or fake clergyman...
12. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 10:44
    Ive not seen many vicars or reverends that dress like that and are into piercings and tatoos...god would not approve. Im sorry, but once agin I smell bullshit. Have a nice day say hi to jesus for me Not all reverends are religiously affiliated. She is a lay reverend (not a getting laid reverend).
13. BrixtonSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 10:46
    LOL Im lost now, how can 'not all reverends b religiously affiliated'? they are religious people devoted to god, ofcourse they are fucking religiusly affiliated.
14. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 10:47
    LOL Im lost now, how can 'not all reverends b religiously affiliated'? they are religious people devoted to god, ofcourse they are fucking religiusly affiliated. Ask her .....I was busy making dinner and never got the full story last night, but am still wondering.........
15. BrixtonSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 10:48
    LOL Im lost now, how can 'not all reverends b religiously affiliated'? they are religious people devoted to god, ofcourse they are fucking religiusly affiliated. Ask her .....I was busy making dinner and never got the full story last night, but am still wondering......... oh....did you miss the conversation..I hate it when that happens. its a shame its not written down like they do in forums... :shock:
16. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 10:52
    LOL Im lost now, how can 'not all reverends b religiously affiliated'? they are religious people devoted to god, ofcourse they are fucking religiusly affiliated. Ask her .....I was busy making dinner and never got the full story last night, but am still wondering......... oh....did you miss the conversation..I hate it when that happens. its a shame its not written down like they do in forums... :shock: Oh piss off. You obviously got out of bed on the wrong side today. What the hell?
17. BrixtonSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 10:55
    LOL Im lost now, how can 'not all reverends b religiously affiliated'? they are religious people devoted to god, ofcourse they are fucking religiusly affiliated. Ask her .....I was busy making dinner and never got the full story last night, but am still wondering......... oh....did you miss the conversation..I hate it when that happens. its a shame its not written down like they do in forums... :shock: Oh piss off. You obviously got out of bed on the wrong side today. What the hell? In the immortal words of Clouds in the Sky. Go fuck a donkey. Outta here. Very touchy, typical female http://www.funkist.ca/images/products/purses/daisy%20hand…
18. Heero ValentineSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 13:12
    LOL Im lost now, how can 'not all reverends b religiously affiliated'? they are religious people devoted to god, ofcourse they are fucking religiusly affiliated. Ask her .....I was busy making dinner and never got the full story last night, but am still wondering......... oh....did you miss the conversation..I hate it when that happens. its a shame its not written down like they do in forums... :shock: Oh piss off. You obviously got out of bed on the wrong side today. What the hell? In the immortal words of Clouds in the Sky. Go fuck a donkey. Outta here. Very touchy, typical female http://www.funkist.ca/images/products/purses/daisy%20hand… -.- u don't have to believe in a religion te be a reverend but when i look at wikipedia...i get this "The Reverend is an honorary prefix to the names of many Christian clergy and ministers. It is correctly called a style rather than a title or term of address. The local shepherd/leader of a church is called Pastor and in most cases holds a license from the state to perform civil functions such as weddings and funerals. The style "Reverend" is reserved for those individuals who have been ordained by a denomination and denotes a thorough understanding and adherence to their doctrines. "The Reverend" is sometimes also used by leaders in non-Christian religions such as Buddhism or the Universal Life Church."
19. jabaSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 14:11
    That is fucking it!
20. ColziSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 14:56
    I'm a bit nervous. It's for friends, but still, i want to make sure it's done in a way that makes them happy. I have been working on memorizing my lines tonight lol.. There's going to be myself, the couple and three others there. We're just going to drive to the coast, find a cool overlook or something, (no idea where yet), do it, sign it, and then go get drunk. XD Good luck - im sure u will be fine, ure learning ure lines so what can go wrong ? :? Report back on the 21st :wink:
21. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 15:49
    LOL Im lost now, how can 'not all reverends b religiously affiliated'? they are religious people devoted to god, ofcourse they are fucking religiusly affiliated. Ask her .....I was busy making dinner and never got the full story last night, but am still wondering......... oh....did you miss the conversation..I hate it when that happens. its a shame its not written down like they do in forums... :shock: Oh piss off. You obviously got out of bed on the wrong side today. What the hell? In the immortal words of Clouds in the Sky. Go fuck a donkey. Outta here. Very touchy, typical female http://www.funkist.ca/images/products/purses/daisy%20hand… At least I have good taste in handbags. :lol:
22. Violette13Salvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 20:14
    Ive not seen many vicars or reverends that dress like that and are into piercings and tatoos...god would not approve. Im sorry, but once agin I smell bullshit. Have a nice day say hi to jesus for me Sorry, not bullshit. :) I'm actually legally ordained.
23. Violette13Salvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 20:17
    As someone mentioned earlier.. there are organizations such a the ULC where you don't have to be religiously affiliated to get legally ordained. Now that i am, i can do funerals, weddings, start my own church if i even wanted. I can do everything short of circumsisions, which is fine because i have no desire whatever to do those. o_O
24. steppman2Salvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 21:29
    And God never said anything about piercings or having tattoos...as long as they don't harm your body or say anything sacrilegious then the Bible is completely cool with it. Pull your head out of the box, it's not a sin to have fun or express yourself. ;)
25. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 21:33
    People see the Tammi Fay Baakers (sp?) and the uptights on TV and they assume we are all like that. Some of the coolest, free-est, funnest people I know believe in God. God doesn't want us to be bored and stuffy, frumpty-dumpties...but like all other stereotypes it will never die. :roll:
26. tim2xSalvaged from archive6 Dec 2006, 22:55
    LOL Im lost now, how can 'not all reverends b religiously affiliated'? they are religious people devoted to god, ofcourse they are fucking religiusly affiliated. being devoted to "god" in what ever way you understand a higher power does not mean you have to be an uptight, anal, conservative, inbred, illiterate, closed minded idiot. religion is man made, not god made. You being from a country where one of your churches only exists because of the greed, arrogance, and corruption of one king, willing to create a church to get a divorce, and the greed, arrogance and a wish for power of a churchman that felt he should answer that call, should at the very least understand that. One of my better friends got himself ordained two years ago. It's his own religion. He's the only member. But he can still marry people, etc. For a few bucks, any one can do it. But to get tax exempt status, you actually have to try to create a congregation.
27. moominSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 08:23
    As someone mentioned earlier.. there are organizations such a the ULC where you don't have to be religiously affiliated to get legally ordained. Now that i am, i can do funerals, weddings, start my own church if i even wanted. I can do everything short of circumsisions, which is fine because i have no desire whatever to do those. o_O i`m sure you could think of someone you would like to circumsise,some one that really pissed you off,OOPS!!! sorry i slipped
28. Violette13Salvaged from archive20 Dec 2006, 21:23
    So we did it. :) We ended up doing the wedding in the walk through shark tank at The Oregon Coast Aquarium.. before we did it though we went to Ripley's, the Wax Museum and The Undersea Gardens. It was a really nice weekend.. and we spent too much money heh.. oh well. Me and my fellow needed a weekend out. :)
29. Big OzzieSalvaged from archive21 Dec 2006, 00:28
    Well CONGRATULATIONS, Violette.... I do wish something funny had happened so that you could have sent a video into FileCabi, but I am glad all went well. No tripping over words, eh? Who were the witnesses...the Nurse Sharks or the Hammerheads?
30. Violette13Salvaged from archive22 Dec 2006, 01:05
    It was kind of funny... i wish we would have had better lighting for the camera, it was really dim. When i was reading the ceremony and while they were reading their vows, we all had to have our notes up close to our face to see them lol.. but as they were reading their vows, one of the largest sharks in the tank swam over the top of them really slow. It was pretty neat. :) I did get rather nervous and almost missed a line, but it went well. It was just the now married couple, me and my fellow and the third best friend and her fellow. No family... nothing, she didn't even tell her family about this one.. o_O I think that's happening on Christmas. I wish her luck... i adore her husband, i think he's a great guy, but her family (mother's side) seems to think he's riff raff or something... @_@

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