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DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 11:54
Do you have something you really really regret doing? :D
jabaSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 12:25
Do you have something you really really regret doing? :D You first! :wink:
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 12:28
Do you have something you really really regret doing? :D You first! :wink: Misbehaving when I was younger is mine. Caused myself a lot of grief.
jabaSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 12:42
Misbehaving when I was younger just made me happy. It must be because you are a girly lol! :wink:
ColziSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 12:45
Do you have something you really really regret doing? :D You first! :wink: Misbehaving when I was younger is mine. Caused myself a lot of grief. Your parents must of loved u :roll: :lol:
verticalkillerSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 14:57
Eric, Murphy and Daniel. Oh and getting sent to reform school and getting kicked out of reform school and Ian and the majority of my life up until I turned 17.
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 15:00
Eric, Murphy and Daniel. Oh and getting sent to reform school and getting kicked out of reform school and Ian and the majority of my life up until I turned 17. James, James, John and Mike (Mike being the most dangerous of the four....which is prob why I went ahead and married him!. :lol: ).
Big OzzieSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 15:08
Not getting a chance tell my mom that I loved her before she died, :( ............................and not giving my best friend ever a hug and a kiss goodbye when I pulled the plug on his respirator. :cry: Always tell the people you love that you love them, It may be the last chance you'll ever get.
zildjianx3Salvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 15:16
Not staying at school as long as possible.Thought i was a smart arse and knew everything at 16.The work force opened my eyes somewhat.
VanguardSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 15:58
Not exercising when I was younger
loadrunnerSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 16:08
this month: drinking buttermilk with the lights off... (3 weeks old lumps. nasty) take a dump in a small alley (between two large buildings) I didn't know there was a camera installed) When ya have to go, ya have to go.... lolz
MonstermashSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 17:19
A few I must say! When I was 10 beating up my friend 'cause he told a teacher I did'nt like her. I told him in confidence :( . I found out on the last day of school, it was a school party and she said somehing like 'so you don't like me then Steven?' I felt three inches tall and ashamed. The thing is I did like her, I was just angry at her and did'nt know why. Sometimes when your a kid, any adult outside your family is considered an enemy. Maybe my biggest regret is not being what my parents hoped what I would be. That's a big failure on my part. They brought me into this world and I am just so unsuccessful. My brothers got his own family and a fish shop. Big Oz I agree tell people you love them, don't be to man about it, its one of the best things you can do, never be ashamed of it!
tgd_02Salvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 17:37
you live with regrets you live incompletely
MonstermashSalvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 18:02
VK you were kicked out of reform school? You kick ass! I love rebels, even those without a cause. That's your spirit!
zildjianx3Salvaged from archive17 Dec 2006, 20:53
Even so Monstermash.I bet your parents would have wanted you to be happy.At the end of the day thats what really counts.We cant please everyone....best to please yourself. 8)
steppman2Salvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 01:50
This thread is still good...someone come up with more stuff!
blaikeSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 02:28
Not getting a chance tell my mom that I loved her before she died, :( ............................and not giving my best friend ever a hug and a kiss goodbye when I pulled the plug on his respirator. :cry: Always tell the people you love that you love them, It may be the last chance you'll ever get. Euthanasia? As of the moment? falling in love with my best friend (a girl). In my past? probably not being studious enough or overanalzying a situation where I think too much about negative consequences.
That DudeSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 02:34
Failing those two classes
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 09:41
Not getting a chance tell my mom that I loved her before she died, :( ............................and not giving my best friend ever a hug and a kiss goodbye when I pulled the plug on his respirator. :cry: Always tell the people you love that you love them, It may be the last chance you'll ever get. Euthanasia? As of the moment? falling in love with my best friend (a girl). In my past? probably not being studious enough or overanalzying a situation where I think too much about negative consequences. "falling in love with my best friend (a girl)". You guys need to get over the idea that you can hang out with girls and not fall in love with them. No such thing as a platonic relationship between the two sexes. (Somebody is lying....if not both). IMO. My biggest regret.......bad choices in the man department. Nearly ended up dead. (For real).
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 12:31
You guys need to get over the idea that you can hang out with girls and not fall in love with them. No such thing as a platonic relationship between the two sexes. (Somebody is lying....if not both). IMO. Not true i have lady friend that we have never *shudders* you know. She looks like a dude. *shudders again* ^^^^^^LOL.....that helps. My biggest regret.......bad choices in the man department. Nearly ended up dead. (For real). abusive man? ^^^^^^First husband.
verticalkillerSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 13:20
VK you were kicked out of reform school? You kick ass! I love rebels, even those without a cause. That's your spirit! I told my friend that this girl had AIDS and somehow it broke out. No one else but one person found out. It wasn't that, that got me kicked out but the fact that I refused my punishment. I'll be fucked if i'm hauling some fucking log around for 1 hour in the morning and 2 hours at night and only talking to my family for 5 minutes a week. FUCK THAT SHIT. HAULING WOOD- My punishment would be to walk around a circle with a bunch of other dicks who've been bad and every other circle we had to pick up a piece of fire wood. Two straight hours and 1 hour in the morning. Like I said, if you think that i'm going to be doing that, you are SORELY mistaken. So i got sent home on my birthday, DEC 2, 2003 was the happiest day of my life. Not to mention my parents sent me a digital camera. HOORAH!
verticalkillerSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 13:35
I told my friend that this girl had AIDS and somehow it broke out. LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Then the authority figure who confronted us goes: SHE DOESN'T EVEN HAVE AIDS! Apparently it was HIV I later found out. Well, excuse the fuck outta me. Still sounds pretty deadly. GROSS!
verticalkillerSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 14:44
so they where punishing you from using the wrong term?! No for just telling. For gossiping.......puhleaze. Spreading a rumor or some such nonsense, but its not like i was lying. It was a religious reforms chool, yeah.........I went there. Here's their gay ass website. www.freedomvillageusa.com Hated every second of it, I tell ya what.
QuackersSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 14:56
Telling everyone how one of my best mates got raped by her dad as a child for revenge, it put her back in counciling. She's skitzophrenic.
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 15:29
Telling everyone how one of my best mates got raped by her dad as a child for revenge, it put her back in counciling. She's skitzophrenic. You just got another point towards next year's list T. Keep up the good work.
QuackersSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 15:32
This was a few years
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 15:35
This was a few years Okay well in that case I am sorry T, no retroactive points. :cry:
blaikeSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 22:50
"falling in love with my best friend (a girl)". You guys need to get over the idea that you can hang out with girls and not fall in love with them. No such thing as a platonic relationship between the two sexes. (Somebody is lying....if not both). IMO. My biggest regret.......bad choices in the man department. Nearly ended up dead. (For real). So... what am I supposed to do? goddamit this is stupid. What would you do? just... not see them ever again?
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 22:53
"falling in love with my best friend (a girl)". You guys need to get over the idea that you can hang out with girls and not fall in love with them. No such thing as a platonic relationship between the two sexes. (Somebody is lying....if not both). IMO. My biggest regret.......bad choices in the man department. Nearly ended up dead. (For real). So... what am I supposed to do? goddamit this is stupid. What would you do? just... not see them ever again? If I start to talk to you about this Blaike Jaba is going to give me a hard time for being "Dear Deirdri" again. :D
blaikeSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 22:56
I honestly have no idea what to do. Do I just avoid her and stop talking to her until I can get over it? Because that's the exact reason I didn't want to tell her... I knew it would fuck everything up. I knew it and she knew it, and now everything's all weird
Clouds in the SkySalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 22:59
Been there done that as well, however we ended up going out together... That's when things got quite ugly.
AllisterFiendSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:03
I regret I didn't spend more time with my grandmother before she died. :?
blaikeSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:04
Sigh, girls confuse me. I really really don't understand this. What she basically said that she liked me too much to go out with me... or quote "I care for you too much and I don't want to ruin that". Clouds: Did it get ugly because of your previous relationship with him? like was it because you were friends before, or something totally unrelated?
Clouds in the SkySalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:06
Sigh, girls confuse me. I really really don't understand this. What she basically said that she liked me too much to go out with me... or quote "I care for you too much and I don't want to ruin that". Clouds: Did it get ugly because of your previous relationship with him? like was it because you were friends before, or something totally unrelated? Yeah, thing is, since we were friends before we had this previous connection, therefore we would breakup then see eachother two months after...the connection would still be there so we would hook up and I would get hurt and arrrghhh.... Long story short, I was naive throughout the whole thing until "I" gave him the boot.
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:08
Sigh, girls confuse me. I really really don't understand this. What she basically said that she liked me too much to go out with me... or quote "I care for you too much and I don't want to ruin that". Clouds: Did it get ugly because of your previous relationship with him? like was it because you were friends before, or something totally unrelated? Yeah, thing is, since we were friends before we had this previous connection, therefore we would breakup then see eachother two months after...the connection would still be there so we would hook up and I would get hurt and arrrghhh.... Long story short, I was naive throughout the whole thing until "I" gave him the boot. Yeah. Gotta watch out for those connections. Too easy to get sucked back into the mire. Well done on the booting Clouds. :wink:
blaikeSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:09
But the times you did break up... that has nothing to do with you being friends right? So I could technically work it out? See you and here aren't me and that guy... We tried being friends but em, the sexual tension was a tad too strong :? (sorry for sharing) Anyway, it all depends on which circumstances surround you. Give it time I say, see how things evolve. In the meanwhile just take care of yourself and concentrate on what makes you happy.
AllisterFiendSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:10
how old are you blaike? lol
Clouds in the SkySalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:11
Sigh, girls confuse me. I really really don't understand this. What she basically said that she liked me too much to go out with me... or quote "I care for you too much and I don't want to ruin that". Clouds: Did it get ugly because of your previous relationship with him? like was it because you were friends before, or something totally unrelated? Yeah, thing is, since we were friends before we had this previous connection, therefore we would breakup then see eachother two months after...the connection would still be there so we would hook up and I would get hurt and arrrghhh.... Long story short, I was naive throughout the whole thing until "I" gave him the boot. Yeah. Gotta watch out for those connections. Too easy to get sucked back into the mire. Well done on the booting Clouds. :wink: The entire "relationship" was merrygoroundesque... It was about time that I put a halt to things, I was cligning to the good times instead of seeing things for what they really were. But I woke up, and that's what counts indeed!
blaikeSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:16
Hm... I'm not quite sure what merrygoroundesque means. I'm 16... main point: I think it's possible to have a platonic relationship with a girl; but is it possible to change a platonic relationship into a real one?
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:17
Hm... I'm not quite sure what merrygoroundesque means. I'm 16... main point: I think it's possible to have a platonic relationship with a girl; but is it possible to change a platonic relationship into a real one? Yes...if you BOTH want to.
Clouds in the SkySalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:17
But the times you did break up... that has nothing to do with you being friends right? So I could technically work it out? See you and here aren't me and that guy... We tried being friends but em, the sexual tension was a tad too strong :? (sorry for sharing) Anyway, it all depends on which circumstances surround you. Give it time I say, see how things evolve. In the meanwhile just take care of yourself and concentrate on what makes you happy.
blaikeSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:25
Hm... I'm not quite sure what merrygoroundesque means. I'm 16... main point: I think it's possible to have a platonic relationship with a girl; but is it possible to change a platonic relationship into a real one? Yes...if you BOTH want to. See the main problem here is that her little "haven" or whatever, or getaway place is basically her home. But her home isn't even that great because her mom tells her that she wont get to college and how she can't wait until (daughter) gets out of the house. They fight all the time, and my friend is utterly convinced that she is the bane of the world. For that reason, she despises anyone who would like her, because she thinks she is irrational, crazy, and impossible to understand, and she thinks anyone who would like her is clearly not seeing the whole picture or just plain stupid. And according to her, I know the most about her in comparison to anyone else... And Clouds, sexual tension isn't a huge problem. Haha she's the biggest prude in the world :) but that's not the point... I don't even want her for sex, I just like... listening to her. Whatever, I'm just going to give up on this... I just need to find a good distraction... fuck
tim2xSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:31
Hm... I'm not quite sure what merrygoroundesque means. I'm 16... main point: I think it's possible to have a platonic relationship with a girl; but is it possible to change a platonic relationship into a real one? I'm gonna piss off a lot of the women with this one. Usually when a woman "likes you too much" or your such a "good friend" is that you may be the nicest guy in the world, but she is not sexually attracted to you in ANYWAY. Or she's keeping you in on the hook for dry spells. You do not fit the womans choice of mate parameters. You have choices. Moon about it for days/weeks/months, decide that you are going to stop associating with this person at all, and completely lose the friendship, try to convince the person that you should be together, or decide to take stock of your feelings, decide you won't be together, and keep the friendship. None of the choices are easy ones, some are harder to do or deal with than others. But YOU need to make the choices in your life, take suggestions, and then do what you need to. In the vein of this thread, regret nothing. Learn from what you do, from what you go through, and carry on. What you do everyday, makes you who you are tomorrow. You can waste life regretting, or you can live.
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:33
Hm... I'm not quite sure what merrygoroundesque means. I'm 16... main point: I think it's possible to have a platonic relationship with a girl; but is it possible to change a platonic relationship into a real one? I'm gonna piss off a lot of the women with this one. Usually when a woman "likes you too much" or your such a "good friend" is that you may be the nicest guy in the world, but she is not sexually attracted to you in ANYWAY. Or she's keeping you in on the hook for dry spells. You do not fit the womans choice of mate parameters. You have choices. Moon about it for days/weeks/months, decide that you are going to stop associating with this person at all, and completely lose the friendship, try to convince the person that you should be together, or decide to take stock of your feelings, decide you won't be together, and keep the friendship. None of the choices are easy ones, some are harder to do or deal with than others. But YOU need to make the choices in your life, take suggestions, and then do what you need to. In the vein of this thread, regret nothing. Learn from what you do, from what you go through, and carry on. What you do everyday, makes you who you are tomorrow. You can waste life regretting, or you can live. I am not pissed off at all Tim. Thank you for telling him the truth. :wink:
Clouds in the SkySalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:35
Hm... I'm not quite sure what merrygoroundesque means. I'm 16... main point: I think it's possible to have a platonic relationship with a girl; but is it possible to change a platonic relationship into a real one? I'm gonna piss off a lot of the women with this one. Usually when a woman "likes you too much" or your such a "good friend" is that you may be the nicest guy in the world, but she is not sexually attracted to you in ANYWAY. Or she's keeping you in on the hook for dry spells. You do not fit the womans choice of mate parameters. You have choices. Moon about it for days/weeks/months, decide that you are going to stop associating with this person at all, and completely lose the friendship, try to convince the person that you should be together, or decide to take stock of your feelings, decide you won't be together, and keep the friendship. None of the choices are easy ones, some are harder to do or deal with than others. But YOU need to make the choices in your life, take suggestions, and then do what you need to. In the vein of this thread, regret nothing. Learn from what you do, from what you go through, and carry on. What you do everyday, makes you who you are tomorrow. You can waste life regretting, or you can live. You haven't aggravated me a bit, what you say is true.
AllisterFiendSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:50
all you girls want is sex!! bah! :x hahahahaha. :lol:
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive5 Jan 2007, 23:53
all you girls want is sex!! bah! :x hahahahaha. :lol: He figured us out Clouds - and at such a tender age too! :D
Clouds in the SkySalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 00:10
all you girls want is sex!! bah! :x hahahahaha. :lol: He figured us out Clouds - and at such a tender age too! :D Oh dear, the last thing we want them to do is to figure us out now :P Must create diversion...
AllisterFiendSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 00:15
sexy time?
blaikeSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 00:16
K, I'm definitely considering the last two there... try to convince the person that you should be together, or decide to take stock of your feelings, decide you won't be together, and keep the friendship I'm leaning towards the last one... or... hm... I haven't learned anything... Those just are the two acceptable ones. If I take choice A, things might get better, but I might also fuck everything up If I take choice B, there'll always be something left unsaid, but its better than giving up everything... and maybe I can just hope it'll play out in the future.
Clouds in the SkySalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 00:26
Look they've made a book for women "He's Not That Into You"....Same applies for men... If she doesn't demonstrate interest then she's not intrested...sorry buddy :( If you've clearly showed signs of you wanting more and she didn't act upon them...nope, she's not interested. Her loss dude, you'll find someone who's more suited for you. If it makes you feel better you can always accidently stick gum into her hair :D
AllisterFiendSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 00:27
plenty of fish in the sea. :)
blaikeSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 00:30
Finally... a concrete answer :) thanks... Haha gum in the hair? what are you, 12? :) hmmm but that might actually work...
Clouds in the SkySalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 00:37
Nah...23 :P
AllisterFiendSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 00:38
close enough. haha
Clouds in the SkySalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 00:41
LOL true :P
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 00:59
Try dating her best friend Blaike. Either kill it or cure it.
blaikeSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 01:02
Hah, that would be interesting...except her best friend is a guy :P. Yepp and her closest friend that's a girl had a thing for me back in the day. Some kind of awkward miscommunication and that just never happened. So that'll never pick up today. I'm still torn! I know what I should do, but I'm being challenged by what I want to do.
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 01:04
Hah, that would be interesting...except her best friend is a guy :P. Yepp and her closest friend that's a girl had a thing for me back in the day. Some kind of awkward miscommunication and that just never happened. So that'll never pick up today. I'm still torn! I know what I should do, but I'm being challenged by what I want to do. Can't always have what you want Blaike. If you've come on to her and she's given you the "I like you too much" stuff then move on......I was just suggesting a diversion. Diversions work. Diversions are good. :D
jabaSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 01:11
I bet the Blink182 t-shirts didn't help here either. :wink:
blaikeSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 01:13
Haha yeah... I can't think of one though! Hhaha this is stupid... What blink t-shirts? I honestly don't have a single band shirt... haha except for this one Senses Fail one I got at a concert.
Clouds in the SkySalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 01:18
I say fuck it, and go get drunk under the train tracks :P
blaikeSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 01:19
Haha no way... parents would flip out... especially after new years. that was not fun
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 01:21
How 'bout cybersex? Hails will teach you!
That DudeSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 01:22
I'm well versed in cyber. It's how I lured those twins to my house last week. On an unrelated note, that night was also the night I enjoyed some of the best steak in my entire life. I still have plenty of leftovers!
jabaSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 01:27
Haha yeah... I can't think of one though! Hhaha this is stupid... What blink t-shirts? I honestly don't have a single band shirt... haha except for this one Senses Fail one I got at a concert. And don't try growing a beard until you're much much older lol. Women as best friends are only good if you have already 'been' there or they are just never going to appeal. You should steer clear of any long term sexual relationships at your age dude - just have fun! :wink:
AllisterFiendSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 01:29
yeah that's what I'm talking about! haha. :lol:
blaikeSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 01:30
assumptions assumptions :P I'm not looking for a long term sexual relationship... what I want is a complete other story... its stupid, and I'm trying to fix it :P. without success... ehm, and I'm also tired as hell, and I have to wake up at 7:15 tomorrow! on a Saturday!. There shouldn't even be a 7:15 on saturdays... it should just go from 1 am to 10 am... and nature should just assume we got 9 hours of sleep and make us feel great :)
DrazSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 02:53
My latest regret is jocking the last girl too hard.
That DudeSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 03:14
On an unrelated note, that night was also the night I enjoyed some of the best steak in my entire life. I still have plenty of leftovers! so you enjoyed the tube steak I gave you ;) I see it was too much had left overs :lol: sry couldn't resist. :P Neither could your sister last night.
Josh85Salvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 19:17
last night?
PASalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 19:39
Hmm.. Never regret.. you learn from your mistakes :wink:
blaikeSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 19:42
Haha yeah, but you regret it after you do it but before you learn from it ;)
DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 19:49
Re learning lessons....I read this somewhere: "Experience is the comb that life gives you after all your hair has fallen out".
jabaSalvaged from archive6 Jan 2007, 20:14
I wish I'd never left London in the 70's. :(

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