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  1. GuestSalvaged from archive29 Jan 2007, 00:00
    One of my dear friends just learned that her fiancé has been cheating on her... and it inspired me to create this thread... Shoot away!
  2. nixrevolSalvaged from archive29 Jan 2007, 00:00
    well you've heard my story so I don't really have a right to say anything about anyone cheating.
  3. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive29 Jan 2007, 00:00
    Quote: Originally Posted by nixrevol View Post well you've heard my story so I don't really have a right to say anything about anyone cheating. Yeah, you blew your cover already Glasgow.
  4. jabaSalvaged from archive29 Jan 2007, 00:00
    It is always a sorry situation on both fences! Men/Women heh?
  5. Jack KlompusSalvaged from archive29 Jan 2007, 00:00
    It is ok if you´re a male. j/k
  6. GuestSalvaged from archive29 Jan 2007, 00:00
    Especially considering that she's a young mother of 2 (she's 22 years old.)
  7. GuestSalvaged from archive29 Jan 2007, 00:00
    Definitely, what's ironic is that I dated this guy about 5 years ago lol... I could have been the one stuck with his sorry ass.
  8. GuestSalvaged from archive29 Jan 2007, 00:00
    We haven't become friends until this year so not until then, she was with him for about four years I think... As for me and him, it was nothing serious... We only dated for 2 weeks lol, if that!
  9. tim2xSalvaged from archive29 Jan 2007, 00:00
    These are the topics to get my ass in trouble. Is it good to cheat? No. Is it always the guys fault? No. Is it always the girls. No. But there is always reasons. Some might be valid, some definitely not. It also depends on your own mind, heart, and emotions. There is one thing letting a biological urge get you to tap some strange. It is another to start a second/third relationship, or to keep something ongoing. Personally, I don't think sex and love really have anything to do with one another. There's people that cheat because they want to go porno, but don't want to do that to/with their partner, because they are embarrassed, think it's dirty or shameful, and don't want anyone they know or love know about their preferences or what they consider their secret nasty likes. Or their just too young mentally to actually commit to a relationship, but they try, because it's easier to get laid in a relationship than trying to score something different on a regular basis, and society says that's what you should do.
  10. GuestSalvaged from archive30 Jan 2007, 00:00
    Quote: Originally Posted by SurfSarge View Post Gotcha...It's prolly best to keep it under wraps! She already knows about this and is smart enough to know that it wasn't anything serious lol...I was 17 or 18 and this only lasted 2 weeks LOL.
  11. Big OzzieSalvaged from archive30 Jan 2007, 00:00
    I got CAUGHT while out fer a ride with my Girlfriend...... http://media.funny.co.uk/files/3989.jpg
  12. DandruffBGoneSalvaged from archive30 Jan 2007, 00:00
    People cheat for all sorts of reasons. Here's a thing going on with a woman I know: She is currently embroiled in her .....wait for it......FIFTH affair. She has a very attractive, faithful, loving husband but she can't seem to resist the attention that an extra-marital entanglement affords her. Her husband gives her attention. They are often going off on romantic weekends, holidays, and trips etc. She is not a beautiful woman and my theory is that she never got the attention from men that attractive women get on a daily basis....so now she can't resist it when it presents itself. Her rationalization is that her father died when she was 18, so she never got the attention from him she required. I don't buy that personally, and think it is a pity ploy. She's trying to take the "victim role" for herself when in fact the victims are the wives and families of her "men friends" and her husband and family. I have noticed that cheaters (both male and female) usually try to come up with some bullshit excuse for their behaviour. They most often seem try to pin the responsiblity on their partner (who is being cheated on) to avoid taking responsibility themselves.

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